If we are truly honest with ourselves, we would all have to admit that there have been those times that we've pointed our finger at someone else's behavior and said "that isn't how a Christian should act."
It is so easy, isn't it?, to see the flaws in others and know exactly how they should be "fixed".
It is so much harder, being aware and admitting our own flaws and honestly, objectively applying truth to change ourselves. Change is hard. Especially that inward, heart change, demanded by a Holy God.
How accurately the Apostle James depicted our predicament and state of being when he told us in James 1:22-24
We must NOT "be conformed to this world, but be transformed" Romans 12:2
and Romans tells us HOW. We are to be renewed in our minds, our thoughts determine our actions. Our thoughts determine the state of our hearts. It is by bringing our THOUGHTS subject to the obedience of Christ; 2Corinthians 10:5, that we are then able, empowered by the Holy Spirit that dwells in us, to accomplish Apostle Pauls exhortation to -
"work out your own salvation with fear and trembling" Philippians 2:12
May we all be found faithful to our Lord today, examining our own selves, working out our own salvation, attending to the log in our own eye by the practical, daily application of His truth to our lives.
May God bless and keep you today according to His riches in Glory!